This is one thing I fail to understand at times .I have seen two types of men,the one who is extremely sensitive and even cries at times and one who acts like they don’t care about anything or anyone.
I read somewhere that, They too are sensitive but they are scared of getting hurt and that’s why they put a fake mask of roughness and it’s also due to our tradition of portraying men as very strong and the sayings like “Men don’t cry “and “why are you crying like a girl”?are the one’s they face from childhood and it’s sad that they don’t have freedom of expression and has to put a fake mask in front of society.
I mean like it’s ok to some extend to act strong and rough as in life ,if you want to support your family ,you need to act that way,because as a pillar of family if you crumble other’s also wil loose their strength.
But it’s so boaring to act like you don’t have any feeling at all and the fake image of rock. we all are humans,there is no point in actong like a robort.
And I have heard girls saying that he acts cold or emotionless so even I am going to treat him the same way because they feel like, he don’t get hurt much as he don’t have any feelings but actually he might be getting hurt and might suffer in silence.
What’s the point in hiding the feelings or emotions and going to the grave with it?
People may not like extremely needy or too emotionally dependent guys but it’s said that showing emotions is a strength as it shows that you are not scared of getting hurt and even if you get hurt,you can deal with it…..
What are your thoughts on this? No offence to the guys,just shared my thoughts that’s it.