Body shaming.

If you ask me ,how skinny you are and if I replay you by asking,how fat you are,how will you feel? 

Or if you ask me how do you maintain your body and if I say you,you will be a better person to answer that as you seem to maintain it well ,how will you feel?

Sounds Rude isn’t it?its the same way at the other end too.

but I don’t as Im taught to respect others and not to upset them by commenting on their body.

People think that only once in plumpy side are commented but we skinny people are shamed even worst.I don’t even understand what’s their problem is ?

And if you feel the person is unhealthy,there is a way to advice and its definitely not by group shaming them or making other person to  doubt whether she is an alien . 

if you are not that rough person ,that’s enough to tear apart their confidence.people don’t even understand what they do and the consequences of it  but I personally take it positive and work on myself to be the best ,that’s a personal choice.

if you are happy with the way you are ,its never mandatory to listen to any one as long as their intention is genuine, that’s to see you healthy.
With love-Crystal.

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Better thoughts creates better life.


I have come across a lot of gossiping recently and it made me think about this topic .

Every moment you are talking or gossiping  about someone’s mistakes,you are loosing valuable time of your life and also you are spending your energy on the negative things .Instead of finding mistake in others ,how nice it would have been if we sit down and think about our flaws and work on it.

No one is perfect and finding mistake in others is the most fun thing to do but before that think for a moment whether you are perfect or not ?

if your answer is no ,then you don’t have any right to judge other’s either.

If we work on our flaws and correct it,we will have a better life ahead or else we will end up to be a bunch of people emitting negative vibes .    choice is ours.

With love-Crystal.

You will survive.

Believe me you have gone through the worst of things and you survived it,you will survive this too……

Depressed and suicidal people are at its worst .you are not alone,there are a lot of people going through it,keep moving forward and have hope and surely you will get through it.

When you go through bad times,remember a few bad incidents of life and remember how you survived and this self affirmation will give a strength to face bad times .

Think in this way that, I have survived the worst so this is nothing big for me ,I will get through this too.

With love-Crystal.

Accept everything.

If you are not satisfied by what you have in your life,you will always end up complaining and it spoils your happiness So accept everything life has to offer,accept the fact that nothing is in our control especially the outside factors,accept the fact that we lose people in life,accept the fact that people behaviour changes in life,situation changes and only person you can ever depend is you and if you practice acceptance then you will lead a happy life and this will make you a very strong person .

P.s-just ma thoughts

With love-crystal.

Thought???

Is it life or a contract to suffer?

When I look around,noone is living .   all are just suffering which makes me think .

What’s going on?Is life the synonym of suffering or Have we all signed a life time contract to suffer?

life was much easier in childhood and during school or college times.The responsibility of adulthood is immense.

If I have 30in watsupp contact.Everyone of them is in pain except one or two who boasts of a jovial life and a few who have the ability to create a smile hiding all the misery underneath.

And a few not willing to play according to life’s wishes ends their life too .

What is life?I wonder…

Comment ur opinion below

With love-Crystal.