Do you foresee things?

I foresee things in dreams before it even happens,it just happened more than 15 times and many dreams I saw came true.

I saw a dream that I was going in the bus and the bus slowed down in an accident site and I could only get a glimpse of the accident and I asked someone who that is,they told the name of a friend ‘varun’ whom I had lost the contact with and I didn’t take the dream seriously and later I came to know that varun had met with a very serious accident and was in comma for a week but meraculously survived and I also came to know that one more collegemate whom I also had lost contact with ‘ varun’ was going to the jim in the morning and met with an accident and died on spot .whose accident did I see in dream? was it coincidental that two people with same name met with an accident almost same time of an year ? The thing is I already saw it and I feel guilty that I couldn’t warn them about this and even If I say nobody would believe.

Another day when the t.v news told about a possible threat of a terrorist attack,I don’t know why I felt that this time it would be a school and then I thought that noone is that merciless to kill innocent kids and later when I came to know the peshwar attack on army school and I was saddened.
None of my dreams are pleasant,        it always shows me a warning or impedding danger .later I found out that I see the things before it happens.Before I used to ignore it  and now I started to analyse what the dreams are trying to tell me and try to take the precautions.But all the dreams didn’t happen and some are vague and I forget it and sometimes I remember it suddenly,the details and sometimes things happens exactly as I saw it in the dreams.

I have tried to explain this to friends but none believed .I have no idea why it happens and it doesn’t happen all the time though.

 Do you also feel the same way?

With love-Crystal.

perfect online life

When you look around in online platforms, people are buying a new house,ending up in a great job,looking glamorous,starting a family,boasting about how blessed they are for having a great partner,children etc and bombing your notifications with their picture perfect life and here you are, thinking ,what the hell is wrong with your life?and this can make you really unpleasant ,thinking that your life sucks and they all are having a great life .

Have you felt this by seeing the updates on facebook,whatsupp or any other social media?

my question is have you observe that you automatically smile when some one takes a photo of you,even if you are very sad at that moment same way we are trained to portray only good side of life to others,noone is in need of sympathy.Hiding behind this perfect life there might be lot of imperfections and we think that everyones life is perfect and only we are stranded in an island alone or walking in the road in left direction where all the people are going to right.

I am sure that the fake social media might be irritating lot of people.

And I feel it’s better to spend some time in wordpress where you get to know  and feel different thoughts and feelings,not fake atleast and you learn something good from this than simply scrolling down on facebook .

Share your thoughts on this.

With love-Crystal.

A child’s forgiveness

She was on tears .Her chubby cheeks were red as her teacher beated her black and blue infront of the entire class.It was more than a small child could handle,she broke down.

principal saw this incident in cctv . Teacher and child were immediately called to the office.            

She scolded the teacher rashly as   any capital punishments were against school rules.

she decided to terminate her as she didn’t follow the code of conduct of the institution.

Before taking any action she called the child in and asked the child,

 “Shall I terminate your teacher?From tomorrow a new teacher will take the charge of your class.”

She nodded her head in agreement . 

Childs eyes suddenly lingered on a slender figure standing outside principal’s room ,That was her teacher,waiting for her destiny.

She looked at her teacher one last time. Her teacher was visibly tensed and worried .It was written on her face that she regretted for being rash to the child.
A lot of memories flashed in her mind.The way her teacher caressed her chubby cheeks,the way teacher made her cinderalla of the story and danced with her,the way her teacher shared her food ,when she forgot her lunch one day.the way they laughed ,the way they sang rhymes together.

 The child’s eyes filled with tears of love and suddenly she yelled

 “No,please don’t remove her.     please,please don’t remove her.”

Principal was surprised by this sudden outburst .

she asked her again 

“She might beat you again”is that ok?

Child replied,” It’s ok ,but please dont remove her.”
The teacher wasn’t terminated due to request of child and the teacher didn’t have any words to express her feelings other than the tears of joy in her eyes.

Based on a real story.

P.s-When someone does one wrong,we usually forget all the right things they did.This child teaches us forgiveness which we adults hesitate to practice.

With love-Crystal.


Anil:Did I hurt you?

Nita:you need not worry,nothing affects me anymore.

After a certain threshold of pain,nothing actually affects us anymore.we get immune to pain.We just stop taking things seriously or to heart.

we need to roll in the pain to get stronger and immune to this immense emotional pain which is worst than physical pain.

Physical pain subsides by visiting a doctor or by having medications.what about emotional pain ? Where are you going to apply ointment ?how many medicines do you need to take?

So never give emotional pain to anyone.

With love-Crystal.

 can’t say no

Have you seen the  people who cannot say no or the people who don’t value their opinions or thoughts and obeys others opinions just to please them? Is it to get more love from the people ?if I say back answers I will be denied the love so let me listen to whatever they say so that I will be always loved.

Being a nice person is a good thing but if you are like this people will use you like a door mat and play with your feelings and no one gives you any respect.

You need to have your own opinions and thoughts and you should stand for it and should take others suggestions and criticism but ultimately you should do what makes you happy and I think that’s what is healthy.

Psychology of people pleasers

With love-Crystal.


Is that an attitude when you refuse to do what you don’t like no matter how much you are forced?

People just want you to listen to what they say and follow the rules they set and if you refuse to obey them ,they make your life miserable so people get scared of this and join them and the one who won’t join them is called and treated as a culprit and is targeted.what a pathetic situation of our society.

Unsaid love

If you love anyone tell them ,you may get the answer yes or no and that pain is better than living with the regret of not expressing your feelings.

With love-Crystal.

Words that are not spoken,                 the feelings that are not expressed Compensate it by digging a hole in the heart and hiding the pain of unsaid words deep inside.

Plants love❤❤❤❤

I never really understood the importance of the plants and trees until I had to shift to the city of cemented buildings from the greenery of my home town.

Here No one is interested in gardening or planting plants stating lack of space as a reason but still there are a few plant lovers out here. 

Why can’t we get a few plants and adjust them in the minimal place that we have.The beauty of it is just enough to brighten up your morning and it will provide you with the fresh air  and it also increase the aesthetic beauty of your home and whatelse when each flower blooms you feel so happy.

See the difference between the pics and it holds the answer and the difference can be felt.

With love-Crystal.❤❤❤