perfect online life

When you look around in online platforms, people are buying a new house,ending up in a great job,looking glamorous,starting a family,boasting about how blessed they are for having a great partner,children etc and bombing your notifications with their picture perfect life and here you are, thinking ,what the hell is wrong with your life?and this can make you really unpleasant ,thinking that your life sucks and they all are having a great life .

Have you felt this by seeing the updates on facebook,whatsupp or any other social media?

my question is have you observe that you automatically smile when some one takes a photo of you,even if you are very sad at that moment same way we are trained to portray only good side of life to others,noone is in need of sympathy.Hiding behind this perfect life there might be lot of imperfections and we think that everyones life is perfect and only we are stranded in an island alone or walking in the road in left direction where all the people are going to right.

I am sure that the fake social media might be irritating lot of people.

And I feel it’s better to spend some time in wordpress where you get to know  and feel different thoughts and feelings,not fake atleast and you learn something good from this than simply scrolling down on facebook .

Share your thoughts on this.

With love-Crystal.

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A child’s forgiveness

She was on tears .Her chubby cheeks were red as her teacher beated her black and blue infront of the entire class.It was more than a small child could handle,she broke down.

principal saw this incident in cctv . Teacher and child were immediately called to the office.            

She scolded the teacher rashly as   any capital punishments were against school rules.

she decided to terminate her as she didn’t follow the code of conduct of the institution.

Before taking any action she called the child in and asked the child,

 “Shall I terminate your teacher?From tomorrow a new teacher will take the charge of your class.”

She nodded her head in agreement . 

Childs eyes suddenly lingered on a slender figure standing outside principal’s room ,That was her teacher,waiting for her destiny.

She looked at her teacher one last time. Her teacher was visibly tensed and worried .It was written on her face that she regretted for being rash to the child.
A lot of memories flashed in her mind.The way her teacher caressed her chubby cheeks,the way teacher made her cinderalla of the story and danced with her,the way her teacher shared her food ,when she forgot her lunch one day.the way they laughed ,the way they sang rhymes together.

 The child’s eyes filled with tears of love and suddenly she yelled

 “No,please don’t remove her.     please,please don’t remove her.”

Principal was surprised by this sudden outburst .

she asked her again 

“She might beat you again”is that ok?

Child replied,” It’s ok ,but please dont remove her.”
The teacher wasn’t terminated due to request of child and the teacher didn’t have any words to express her feelings other than the tears of joy in her eyes.

Based on a real story.

P.s-When someone does one wrong,we usually forget all the right things they did.This child teaches us forgiveness which we adults hesitate to practice.

With love-Crystal.

Tears of grapes.

Mercilessly stomped the grapes with your strong legs ,

Its tears turned in to wine so addictive to give you a high.
Hope all are good,Even though I love to write about inspiration, sometimes some sad feelings creeps in and I put them in to words as a process of emotional release and
I know I haven’t thanked ma followers from a long time

Thank you all for liking and commenting my work,lots of love

Crystal.๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Pic courtesy-Google.

World needs sensitive people.

When I was having a conversation with friend’s ,one point in the conversation striked me .

My friend’s are the sweetest and the most selfless people I ever know,the people with good souls and make the world a good place to live in .

Almost all my friends learned the same lessons by the bitter life experiences they had and that are

1.Love yourself and take care of yourself first.

2.Be selfish,think of your feelings and your life first.

3.Do not get too attached to anyone ,keep a distance as it hurts like hell.

4.Do not sacrifice everything for other’s and do not put other’s infront of you.

5.Think practically and don’t take impulsive emptional decisions.

Then I realised that even if our life experiences  were different,we all learned the same lessons at the end.

I am just thinking that if all the good souls also hardens up like this,how our world would be,there will be no angels ,our world will be filled with only devil’s ,turning the angels also in to the devils.

Imagine being surrounded by selfish people,no sacrifices,no emotions,only the practical thinking and mechanical life,How frustating It would be?That’s where we are headed to,our world is headed to.

World needs nice  ,sensitive people like you which makes the stay in the world beautiful and a life worth living.

With love-Crystal.


Golden sand grains

For every moment I waited for you,I became a sand grain added to the sea shore.
The day the sea shore was made by the millions of sandgrains,my love overflowed.

For every time a wave wetted the grains, it glowed in sun’s rays ,glowed in your smile.

The tears nor the heaviness of waves on the sand grains were nothing infront of the smile of you , that shined upon the golden sand grains.

With love-Crystal.

Immune.

Anil:Did I hurt you?

Nita:you need not worry,nothing affects me anymore.

After a certain threshold of pain,nothing actually affects us anymore.we get immune to pain.We just stop taking things seriously or to heart.

we need to roll in the pain to get stronger and immune to this immense emotional pain which is worst than physical pain.

Physical pain subsides by visiting a doctor or by having medications.what about emotional pain ? Where are you going to apply ointment ?how many medicines do you need to take?

So never give emotional pain to anyone.

With love-Crystal.

Antidote for happiness.

I turned around and looked at her on hearing an unexpected question.

Her eyes were shallow,there was just nothing,it was like a pool without any motion.

Her hair wasn’t combed nor tied .   she remained in a sculpture state without much movements other than the movement of her lips and blinking of her eyes.

She repeated the question, seeing the puzzled look on my face.

I asked”How are you able to smile?”

Is there an answer to that question.?    It made the innocent kid to think and  she couldn’t find any answer.
She asked me again,I want to know,    ” How do you feel happy.”?                    ” How are you able to smile.”?

I didn’t know what to say,I was a school kid laughing around with       my friends and I hadn’t lost the happiness at that point to speak about it or to know more about it.

I couldn’t give her the antidote of happiness and my answer to her was silence because I was thinking about it in vain.

But now I realise exactly what she was talking about.

later I came to know that she was a rape victim as well as in severe depression.

P.s-This is what depression and rape feels like .Be kind to them.